Just as a random note, I don’t track my tag on this blog or kittenwicked because they never show up. The last tag I’ve noticed for kittenwicked is almost a year ago and nothing new has shown up. It’s a pain in the ass and I have no idea why it won’t update :|


My trip to Dragon*Con 2014
Got a pic with deadpool, did the True Blood panel, saw Bpal but couldn’t get get close and got some signed Alice in Wonderland prints!!

Holy crap -__- I posted these on my Pagan blog instead of this one. I have the dumb. Thanks severinw93 for pointing that out b/c I never would have noticed!!!

I’ve just discovered unfuckyourhabitat

On their website and tumblr and I think I’m gunna cry. I’ve been harassing my bf about cleaning for over a year and now that I’ve moved in we have more stuff. His being lazy just rubs off onto me and I end up making excuses. My only good cleaning times are when he’s working and I’m off and usually I only do laundry and make the bed.

Today I’ve already made the bed but I’m going to do laundry and actually fold and put it away. Last week I just left it in the hamper after I got back from the laundry building on the other side of the complex. I might not clean more today but I’m a lot more motivated to make a schedule and start cleaning more.

I’ve also joined Duolingo because I want to learn Spanish and French, I’m studying for my Pharm Tech certification, and still learning Tarot. So I’m going to try and get a little of each done every day and a good bit of each done on  days off. I’m pumped for this shit.

This is my ALS ice bucket challenge!! And yes I donated also


It’s been a few days over a year since Zach got home from deployment. I will never forget the day he came home to me. It was amazing. This past year has been fantastic and I love him so much. We’ve finally moved in together and our 2 year anniversary is coming up in October. I think pretty much every night before I go to sleep I think about how lucky I am and how crazy it is that I’m here with him every day. Sometimes it seems like a dream. I’m so lucky to have such a wonderful man.

As an aside, I don’t post a lot of milso stuff on this blog and I stopped following a lot of Milso blogs because of drama. This blog is mine, about me and my life. I am not dating an army man or a military guy. I am dating a man. Being in the army is his job, it is not a definition of him, me, or our life together. I don’t mind (and would love) making milso friends but I’m not about that 24/7 military always life.


Birthday present from the boyfriend #harrypotter #slytherin #terrycloth #robe #me #personal

Birthday present from the boyfriend #harrypotter #slytherin #terrycloth #robe #me #personal

Found the thing!!!!

Found the thing!!!!

I used to think that I was empathic, I’m very good at sensing peoples emotions and helping them deal with things. Good at cheering people up and generally identifying with them. That magnifies 20x when I read. I have serious empathy for fictional people. It’s weird

My birthday is coming up on the 16th and if any of my followers feel like getting me something, an amazon gift card works!!! The email address for it is theladylayla@yahoo.com